Do Not Let Anyone DisCourage You!

Have the courage not to let anyone tell you – you can’t achieve your deepest dreams and desires.  There are naysayers everywhere in the world.  The worst crime to me is discouraging anyone from their soul’s desire.  Don’t shut that part of you off, it is there because it is the core of who you are.  Your Inner Guidance System knows exactly what you need.  Sometimes when we listen to our Inner Guidance and take action, people around us come up with all kinds of reasons why things won’t work out.  As a child didn’t you use your imagination and intuition all day long?  Trust that.  Go back to opening yourself to letting go of all the old “stuff” that holds no value for you any longer.  Say Yes To Life and No to Fear and Doubt.

Free yourself from old, boring, useless time wasting habits.  Free yourself from people who drag you down. Free yourself from anything that keeps you from your goals. Focus like a laser beam. You are powerful and do not let anyone tell you otherwise.  Find people who support you in your excellence. What do you want?  Do you imprint it in your mind, body and soul?  Do you give thanks that it is already here for you – NOW?  Stop believing – move into knowingness.  Know that what you want is here for you in this present moment.  Stay with that in a powerful way.  Let no one dissuade you.  Do not be impatient, for that brings in doubt and fear.  You are done with that nonsense, aren’t you?  Demand your freedom from all doubt and fear.  When you live in the moment you are in right now and nowhere else, shifts will occur rather quickly.  Don’t look back – there is nothing there.  Stay present in great peace and grace, standing in your KnowingNess.  Life is not supposed to be as hard as we have made it.  Do we have challenges, do we need to Live in Courage? Of course.  There will be bumps, challenges and many things to deal with.  That’s life.  How you handle these challenges is what makes you courageous, loving, joyful, fulfilled, peaceful and abundant.

Never be discouraged.  Disappointment is a feeling deep within everyone because of an accumulation of life’s experiences.  Release all disappointment, throw it away, along with grudges, judgment, criticism and blame.  You are the only one responsible for how your life turns out, so quit blaming yourself or anyone else for anything.  It is time to get on with your life. A life that can be filled with everything you can dream of and then some.  Invest in yourself, you are worth it.

Make it a great day in each NOW moment, for in each moment you have a choice as to how you choose to feel and think.

In Encouragement to you from Living in Courage,

Debra Oakland @ Living in Courage Online

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Living In Courage NOW Can & Will Change Your Life

Let’s talk about this NOW moment and how living in it can and will change your life. This is a great way to Live In Courage.

Allow yourself to sink into the moment of NOW.  Sit still in a place you will not be disturbed, yet soak in what is going on around you.  Perhaps there is a breeze or the sun touching your skin.  Can you hear birds chirping? Maybe an aroma of fresh coffee or food cooking drifts your way. Children playing or a city alive and teeming with life.  Wherever you are feel it, take it all in while you are in the stillness of NOW.

Yes, thoughts will come into your mind.   Let them pass by.  Notice how you feel in the NOWness and AWAREness of this peaceful moment.  Notice also, when a negative, worrisome thought or feeling tries to steal your peace. You will notice the energy of the moment you were in change. You can feel it. No judging.  Just notice the difference. This practice will teach you to catch yourself when you shift out of NOW.  The more you can stay in the present moment in calm awareness, you will regain the power you have lost in your life.

The past is OVER in each moment that passes.  Your future is created by the NOW moments your are in.  What are you choosing as the architect of your life?  Make powerful choices and decisions for yourself.  Stand in your KNOWINGNESS, which carries much more weight and influence than BELIEVING.  Say the words.  Feel the difference.  Believing feels heavy – Knowing feels LIGHT.  The more you can exist in NOW, the more aware, peaceful, loving and joyful you will be. Living in Courage is living NOW.

Behind the scenes of chaos, confusion and conflict lays LIFE.  Life Is Everything and available to everyone.  Life loves to fulfill itself through you as anything you create as the architect of your life.  The best way to shut down your good is to engage in negativity and giving your attention to all it’s nasty family and relatives.  Have CLEAR CONCISE thoughts and feelings because your mind cannot act upon a mixed thought.  The most dominant though and feeling will manifest right before your eyes.  Love and fear cannot co-exist in the same space.  YOU always get to choose.

Never forget the power of gratitude.  Be grateful for what you have NOW.  Everything is here for you, for me, for everyone.  The human drama can take it’s toll in many areas of life.  Use KNOWINGNESS to guide you through the waters of life.  Not fear or doubt.  The answers are not OUT there – that is living from the OUTSIDE IN.  The answers are right where you are right NOW.  That is living from the INSIDE OUT.  You decide, you choose, you create, you, you, you.  Only you.

Debra Oakland @ Living in Courage Online

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A DOSE OF INSPIRATION TO BEGIN YOUR WEEK!

~The expression of our unique gifts paves the way for CREATING CHANGE NOW.~

A Dose Of Inspiration To Begin Your Week

Our lives are truly a work of art! They are a manifestation of the gifts that we offer to the world. When we embrace and share our gifts, the true purpose of our life is clearly revealed and confirmed. We are in tune with our spiritual nature when we let go of the expectations others have of us and do that which brings us the greatest joy and fulfillment. This is living from the inside-out instead of living from the outside-in!

To move toward that which brings us joy isn’t selfish! In fact, it is the most generous thing we can do. This allows us to be in the pure, loving space of sharing our true gifts with others. The spirit of others cannot be lifted until or unless we trust our own gifts and offer them to the world.

We must not make the mistake of thinking that we have no gift to offer! Everyone has a gift to offer. Our gift is that which brings joy to ourselves and others. It is a pure and creative expression that breaks down walls, removes the symbolic armor of protection that we all wear, and allows others to know who we really are. Our gifts come from the heart. When our gifts are shared freely and openly, we will know the true meaning of prosperity. Only that which we truly love doing will touch others and bring genuine appreciation our way.

Nurturing and developing our gifts is key. We must take risks and open our hearts. Gradually, our confidence will build with ease and our light will grow and expand and awaken those that come our way. Those who refuse to begin even in a small way cannot accomplish anything. Our gifts are not meant to be hidden from the world! Joy-full individuals share their gifts with no expectation or attachments. They are content expressing their gifts without conditions. Unhappy individuals hold onto their gifts waiting for the perfect time and perfect venue to express them. Sadly, no one benefits from gifts that are withheld and kept locked away from the outside world.

Part of learning to trust our gifts is letting go of any attachments to how we feel the gift should be received. To give our gifts, we must release them and let go of any expectations regarding who will receive it and who won’t. We can’t hold onto our gifts and share them at the same time! We must give our gifts the wings they deserve!

The authentic expression of our gifts builds bridges of true connection with others. As we embrace our gifts and extend them freely, we naturally begin to move through our fears and self limiting behaviors. When others are faced with our absolute, uncompromising commitment to ourselves, they will either join us or move swiftly out of our way! Clarity emerges where ambivalence once resided. Surrendering occurs. Spirit awakens.

Spiritual work requires surrendering. Superficial work of the ego requires the illusion of control. Commitment to the pure and beautiful expression of our gifts paves the way for our dreams to become a reality. If we are really honest with ourselves, we will recognize that no one or nothing outside of us will ever prevent us from actualizing our goals. We are the only one that can sabotage the manifestation of our dreams! This is a harsh truth, yet it must be recognized and realized if we wish to create real change in our lives.

The way to CREATE CHANGE NOW is to determine what we want, commit to it, visualize it clearly, move toward our goals and embrace the opportunities that come our way, all the while surrendering our expectations of things happening in a specific manner. When we remain faithful and true to the honest, open expression of the gifts that come from the heart, we experience joy and fulfillment. That is when doors open and powerful, positive change can happen.

May you allow yourself the opportunity to express your gifts today! May you open your heart and CREATE CHANGE NOW!
My new book, Create Change Now, is available at http://create-change-now.com! I invite you to take a look if you haven’t done so already.

Wishing you all a beautiful, fulfilling week!

Warmest Regards,
Cari LaGrange Murphy
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The Courage of Children’s Book “Imagine That”

I have a most delightful friend in Rosemary Holmes-Gull.  She has written the magical children’s book “Imagine That” -  a book of true inspiration that represents courage to me.  Part of the proceeds from sales of the book go to “Mothers Without Borders.” Rosemary’s son Bentley did the beautiful illustrations.The campaign day for the book May 26th 2009.  If you would go to Rosemary’s website (Children’s Imaginings) that day – May 26th to order to order “Imagine That” this will help her get up the best seller charts!!  I know you will love this book.  Please share it with your family and friends.  They will thank you for it.

Imagine That…A Picture Book of Possibilities

This delightful picture book inspires and motivates children to see and believe in their magnificence. Using examples from nature–the ant, the butterfly, and the bumble bee–children come to understand their power, their ability to overcome difficulties and challenges, even the ability to do the seemingly impossible. All of this because they have been blessed with the gift of imagination. A recurring theme throughout the book is: If you believe it, you will find a way to achieve it.

This has truly been a labor of love for Rosemary,” a work of heart” as she plans to donate part of the proceeds from sales of the book to Mothers Without Borders, an organization that works with AIDS orphans in Zambia. Rosemary is traveling to Zambia in July to work as a volunteer with the children.
She is especially proud of the wonderful illustrations that her son, Bentley provided for the book. It was joyful experience to collaborate with him in this venture.

For details on purchasing the book, please visit www.childrensimaginings.com

Children are our future, so it is vital that they realize they hold joy inside through the power of Love.  This lovely book teaches children how to Live in Courage.

Debra Oakland @ Living in Courage Online

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Feel Your Joy by Andy Dooley

Feel your love, feel your joy.

Be the change you want to see.

Celebrate today, and feel your power now!

It’s always more FUN to give than receive!

Andy Dooley

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